Pick yourself up and dust yourself off– I like that
As we get older it becomes harder to look at ourselves in the mirror. And no, it’s not just the obvious signs of aging but that we have to face — not even choices but — things that happened in our lives that left a mark on that person looking back on us.
Those of us who grew up near a large and relatively stationary family (look, dad’s family lost half its kids or more to other countries each generation (I represent) but there were enough that stayed there) and had enough generations to know the “family look.”
When you’re young you can deceive yourself that you don’t belong to this large, clumsy, lumbering tribe (represent again!) but as you age, you start seeing other people in your mirror. For years now, I’ve been looking at my paternal grandmother, which is funny since, objectively my features are more like mom’s. …
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